Actually rescue dogs from a distance are a bad idea! Every so often you end up helping spread the territory of a disease! If possible find one closer to you.
Won't go into the tale of the small town around here where one new dog caused virtually all the rest to die. Oh well I guess I did. 🙁
The rescue caretaker provided me with vet records for all shots, neutering, teeth cleaning and extractions, etc. Good assurance that the dog was in good health.
What is to stop someone from moving and bring such a dog into another town? Nothing.
Neo got better care from the rescue caretaker than our first Yorkie did from the puppy mill operator that had him. (We were unaware of puppy mills at the time).
The rescue caretaker provided me with vet records for all shots, neutering, teeth cleaning and extractions, etc. Good assurance that the dog was in good health.
What is to stop someone from moving and bring such a dog into another town? Nothing.
Neo got better care from the rescue caretaker than our first Yorkie did from the puppy mill operator that had him. (We were unaware of puppy mills at the time).
Normal moving involves usually involves cared for pets. Rescue dogs are usually not as well cared for as your's was.
As a kid one of the pound dogs came with distemper. Died quickly but couldn't get a new dog for months to make sure there wasn't a chance of follow on contagion.
But as Will Rogers used to say about stocks "Buy a stock, when it goes up sell it, if it doesn't go up don't buy it." Almost applies to the original topic.
Cassiel thanks for the LOL,
Always a pleasure to give joy to others.

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Stumbled across this thread, and I felt the need to wish the OP the best of luck, and I hope the children get the benefit in frequent access to both parents.
I have been going through something similar over the last year. We split last year. It was awful for a couple of months. She removed access(didn't know this was actually not justified at the time), since March we have been amicable, i have had regular access. Now she is again expecting her third child, my access has been getting altered and reduced. After remaining amicable for 9 months I am now seriously considering mediation as a prelude to court, if i have to. Its an incredibly hard choice to make.
You choose whats best for your kids. If theyre happy, you will be too.
So good luck.
Greg ��
I have been going through something similar over the last year. We split last year. It was awful for a couple of months. She removed access(didn't know this was actually not justified at the time), since March we have been amicable, i have had regular access. Now she is again expecting her third child, my access has been getting altered and reduced. After remaining amicable for 9 months I am now seriously considering mediation as a prelude to court, if i have to. Its an incredibly hard choice to make.
You choose whats best for your kids. If theyre happy, you will be too.
So good luck.
Greg ��
Sometimes it makes sense to ask the right questions beforehand ... Indian groom minus a bride after failing to correctly answer simple maths equation at wedding ceremony - ABC News (Australian Broadcasting Corporation).
Stumbled across this thread, and I felt the need to wish the OP the best of luck, and I hope the children get the benefit in frequent access to both parents.
You choose whats best for your kids. If theyre happy, you will be too.
So good luck.
Greg
yes !
Love could (do !) make you blind and erases all your accurate judgements !
happyness is a warm gun in a couple (despite some can find an equilibrium sometimes living in a war environment-but never the kids !) and when a new relation will born and grow (or not, happyness is not a competition !) you will understand it's always bad to be tied to the past couple for what it is not today (no more: love passed !) ... but you never know in the present time as you have to manage your own sadness and rude atmosphere !
So ALD my friend : after the tempest, the calm 🙂, sun will come again !
Stay friend with the childrens' mother if you can, be wise for two! Certainly no more better mission in life that to think to the children first ! Everybody agree here; and life is possible and even better for children when both parents not live together anymore).
As we say here "1 femme de perdu, 10 de retrouvées!" (If you loose one woman, you will find ten instead)... do like me as I'm lazy, try to keep the next one instead ten and if you can: try a two roofs life with part time relation, keeping some free time for you and the children ! Buy the peace, give the money (if you can !).
Easy to advise when we are not himself in the tempest ! just my humble opinion but more my support !
cheers AudioLapDance !
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