I know a lot about women but if I give away my info here they wouldn't look so mysterious anymore to many of you. So I rather not spoil anyone's party.
Anyway, women are really lucky that so many of you really need them, that gives them power, yeah, they love power too. Just don't take them too serious, OK? And remember that your manly instincts will drive you crazy if you let them too loose. Cool your jets. Don't look too desperate. It's a game and you have to know how to play it. Take it easy. Women can be enjoyable if you're the one controlling the situation. If not, pain and sorrow awaits you my friend.
Anyway, women are really lucky that so many of you really need them, that gives them power, yeah, they love power too. Just don't take them too serious, OK? And remember that your manly instincts will drive you crazy if you let them too loose. Cool your jets. Don't look too desperate. It's a game and you have to know how to play it. Take it easy. Women can be enjoyable if you're the one controlling the situation. If not, pain and sorrow awaits you my friend.
In control of women 😕 what planet are you on Cassiel.
PLEASE let me in on the secrets !!!!!
I´m getting good at avoiding the honey do that list(long and hard practise)😀
PLEASE let me in on the secrets !!!!!
I´m getting good at avoiding the honey do that list(long and hard practise)😀
I didn't say that. You have a certain amount of control if she's in love with you but that doesn't last long (if it ever happens). You really can't control women, but you can control yourself. Then everything is under control. LOL. Now, this may sound stupid but it isn't.
OK - some updated rules. Not that they will help a thing - but what the heck - you still gotta play the game or purchase a blow-up doll.
The new rules of attraction
The new rules of attraction
Well - I must admit - for the cost of the "privilege" of having relations with my wife I could sped $1000 US at a "house of ill repute" and come out ahead of things. Maybe even enough left over for a new piece of audio gear if I just went in for a "short time". 😀
I use a lead pipe to get women, works every time 😀
I found confidence to be key. Whenever I was involved with a woman I wasn't trying to impress others I met, I was not watching what I said to them; I could just be myself. Then there was potential everywhere. I just talk to them like I talk to my friends. I don't worry about being too forward... within reason, of course. I talk to everyone like that now. If I tell a corny or offensive joke and someone scoffs, we most likely will not get along, I move on. I wouldn't want to watch what I say for the rest of my life... and so I've had very happy relationships with women even though they did eventually end. But, now I found the woman I want to be with till the end of days, my best friend, a person I look forward to seeing everyday and can tell everything, I can listen to intently, and I married her. We are now waiting for the birth of our first child and I couldn't be happier about it. I could have been married several times before with compromise, I am glad I waited.
...and smiling and saying hi does work wonders. Do it everywhere and to everyone. Chances are that when you're being sweet and polite to an ancient ogre there is a foxy lady watching and will take note.
I found confidence to be key. Whenever I was involved with a woman I wasn't trying to impress others I met, I was not watching what I said to them; I could just be myself. Then there was potential everywhere. I just talk to them like I talk to my friends. I don't worry about being too forward... within reason, of course. I talk to everyone like that now. If I tell a corny or offensive joke and someone scoffs, we most likely will not get along, I move on. I wouldn't want to watch what I say for the rest of my life... and so I've had very happy relationships with women even though they did eventually end. But, now I found the woman I want to be with till the end of days, my best friend, a person I look forward to seeing everyday and can tell everything, I can listen to intently, and I married her. We are now waiting for the birth of our first child and I couldn't be happier about it. I could have been married several times before with compromise, I am glad I waited.
...and smiling and saying hi does work wonders. Do it everywhere and to everyone. Chances are that when you're being sweet and polite to an ancient ogre there is a foxy lady watching and will take note.
The biggest myth about women is they are looking for a good sense of humour.
Many times i have sent a benign joke to someone on a dating site and nearly always got stroppy replies like "Are you trying to be funny?"
Now i always send a joke first, because if they are easily upset then we would never get on anyway.
Many times i have sent a benign joke to someone on a dating site and nearly always got stroppy replies like "Are you trying to be funny?"
Now i always send a joke first, because if they are easily upset then we would never get on anyway.
Calculating your investment and women in the same sentence is not working?
Buying a nice vintage piece of audio selling for same or more 10 years later.
Investing in girls very low second hand value 😀
Buying a nice vintage piece of audio selling for same or more 10 years later.
Investing in girls very low second hand value 😀
I knew a bloke some years ago who thought he had picked up a dose.
He chatted up the receptionist at the clinic.
When his results came back negative, he scored !!!
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Borrow a cute puppy and go for walks in the park .......
Borrow a baby and go to the shopping mall, looking helpless .....
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Borrow a baby and go to the shopping mall, looking helpless .....
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Borrow a baby -yeah , good luck ! Like people just give away babies so some clutz can get laid 😉 There are enough wall flowers looking to get rescued. So if you've got no money you have to pretend that you're romantic, and drama, love ,passion matters to you above all.
I agree about sense of humor -not many women got it. At some point a "romantic man" just have to make money -more the better. The art of romance quickly dies without sufficient funds. All women hate greedy , stingy men (it doesn't stop them to save every penny they've got for themself) but I'd rather stay away from a high maintenance breed.
I agree about sense of humor -not many women got it. At some point a "romantic man" just have to make money -more the better. The art of romance quickly dies without sufficient funds. All women hate greedy , stingy men (it doesn't stop them to save every penny they've got for themself) but I'd rather stay away from a high maintenance breed.
Yeah this is all great positive advice.
To every bit of advice which goes something like; "just be yourself and do things you like"
When I do things I like there aren't women there...
and to just be yourself, "myself" is apparently not assertive, or forward, or something nobody has mentioned.
It still sounds to me like the successful among you were "just kinda hangin out" and there were women there. HOW???? Jeeze. It's insane that I can go to a hip bar. Try different beers and play darts by myself for three hours, and not speak to anyone but my bartender.
You guys interact with people in a way that I just can't seem to recognize, and in a way you haven't thought of extrapolating on. Somehow people get to climbing social ladders and making connections...
Like I said its all great advice. But somehow it seems that you all have managed to get your foot in the door to a greater degree than I can. You realized things were moving in the right direction, even if it was just in the direction of a friendly relationship. I meet people. They never call. I make efforts to learn about and talk to them. They don't answer when I call. And I just discouraged and stop trying with that person. It's so incredibly frustrating!
Just saying Hi, being polite, and being attentive, does not cut it. Think!
To every bit of advice which goes something like; "just be yourself and do things you like"
When I do things I like there aren't women there...
and to just be yourself, "myself" is apparently not assertive, or forward, or something nobody has mentioned.
It still sounds to me like the successful among you were "just kinda hangin out" and there were women there. HOW???? Jeeze. It's insane that I can go to a hip bar. Try different beers and play darts by myself for three hours, and not speak to anyone but my bartender.
You guys interact with people in a way that I just can't seem to recognize, and in a way you haven't thought of extrapolating on. Somehow people get to climbing social ladders and making connections...
Like I said its all great advice. But somehow it seems that you all have managed to get your foot in the door to a greater degree than I can. You realized things were moving in the right direction, even if it was just in the direction of a friendly relationship. I meet people. They never call. I make efforts to learn about and talk to them. They don't answer when I call. And I just discouraged and stop trying with that person. It's so incredibly frustrating!
Just saying Hi, being polite, and being attentive, does not cut it. Think!
Deal with yourself and forget about trying to meet girls.
Fact is that it is not hard to meet people of the opposite sex, almost everyone on the planet does it.
If you find this impossible then it is YOU that is the problem and for this reason you may have to change yourself. It might be better to describe yourself and ask opinons on how to achieve personal change...
One obvious piece of advice however would be not ask questions like this on websites like this. It's like asking advice about why you suck at ballet in a hunting forum.
Go do things - take care of yourself - and if all else fails just be a monk
Fact is that it is not hard to meet people of the opposite sex, almost everyone on the planet does it.
If you find this impossible then it is YOU that is the problem and for this reason you may have to change yourself. It might be better to describe yourself and ask opinons on how to achieve personal change...
One obvious piece of advice however would be not ask questions like this on websites like this. It's like asking advice about why you suck at ballet in a hunting forum.
Go do things - take care of yourself - and if all else fails just be a monk
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First goal is to be happy with your self.
When you keep asking what´s wrong with your self all the time your not sending out anything positive to your surrondings.
I had a small party for some friend yesterday and i´ll tell you all that it was a colorfull bunch.
But with the help of a few beers the most different people start to find out that they have common interests.
Theese 5 guys thats installing steel hangars living in caravans most of the year was sitting in one corner, me nowing their "strong side"brought out a guitar and they got their instruments from their cars and soon we had a live music show.
And from sitting in the corner they was surrounded by everyone and having fun.
Figure out your strong sides and use them everyone is good at something, that it´s different from person to person is what makes it interesting.
Have a few drinks when your in a good mood among nice people that will get rid of some hold backs(keep it on a normal level).
This became a small book sorry for that.
So fire up the barbeque and invite your neighbours and friends because if you do so you will be invited to their party meeting new people and thats the base of meeting some one.
So i´m of to the barn cutting sheets for new speakers 😀
When you keep asking what´s wrong with your self all the time your not sending out anything positive to your surrondings.
I had a small party for some friend yesterday and i´ll tell you all that it was a colorfull bunch.
But with the help of a few beers the most different people start to find out that they have common interests.
Theese 5 guys thats installing steel hangars living in caravans most of the year was sitting in one corner, me nowing their "strong side"brought out a guitar and they got their instruments from their cars and soon we had a live music show.
And from sitting in the corner they was surrounded by everyone and having fun.
Figure out your strong sides and use them everyone is good at something, that it´s different from person to person is what makes it interesting.
Have a few drinks when your in a good mood among nice people that will get rid of some hold backs(keep it on a normal level).
This became a small book sorry for that.
So fire up the barbeque and invite your neighbours and friends because if you do so you will be invited to their party meeting new people and thats the base of meeting some one.
So i´m of to the barn cutting sheets for new speakers 😀
Not sure what you mean by this (not sure I want to know), but it needs adjustment.
But you're not too bashful to start this thread. Think!
Maybe you need to find a female bartender.
Nope, that doesn't cut it. That sounds like a visit to Grandma's house.
i never thought that a post like that will have so much fuzz arround it !!! Very nice i think ...seems that we are all audio people with feelings and other needs also ... that is very nice to know ....
here is a tip
can only apply to electronic meetings ... that can be chat rooms facebook msn and so on
you have to imagine internet as a super market .. eveything is there, what you will buy is mostly up to you ...obviously there is going to be good shoping or crap ... you will have to choose on your own ...
the tip:
when you socialize with a girl through a chat room on a monday afternoon while she as at the office for example and has a few spare minutes for facebook you may realize that she is possibly dont give information fast enough , she is a bit nosy, possibly playing hard to get ( i also belive that this picture might be familiar to u ) so you know what i mean
why ??? what is wrong with that ... hmmm i can tell you !!! wrong choise of date and time !!!! Try to enter the same electronic way of comunication on a specific date and time ... that will be saturday morning between 10-13.00 and the exact same time on Sunday mornings .
why ???? cause the girl you are talking to didnt had sex last night and that is why she is first thing in the morning shoping at facebook ...or last night that she went for a drink with her girl friend (girl's night out ) she had seen the ext boyfriend kissing with a new girl and so on and on ...
the specific girl at the specific time will be by far more honnest with you she will lay out her cards far more easier and even better if you manage to esatblish contact or a date with her she will be much easier to approach or "offer" you more comunicative ways to contact her ...
Trouble is that the same girl on a thrisday night is too far away from the "SATURDAY MORNING SYNDROME" and probably shelf cured the ext "boyfriend issue" resulting behaviour "i am hard to get "
happy hunting !!!!
here is a tip
can only apply to electronic meetings ... that can be chat rooms facebook msn and so on
you have to imagine internet as a super market .. eveything is there, what you will buy is mostly up to you ...obviously there is going to be good shoping or crap ... you will have to choose on your own ...
the tip:
when you socialize with a girl through a chat room on a monday afternoon while she as at the office for example and has a few spare minutes for facebook you may realize that she is possibly dont give information fast enough , she is a bit nosy, possibly playing hard to get ( i also belive that this picture might be familiar to u ) so you know what i mean
why ??? what is wrong with that ... hmmm i can tell you !!! wrong choise of date and time !!!! Try to enter the same electronic way of comunication on a specific date and time ... that will be saturday morning between 10-13.00 and the exact same time on Sunday mornings .
why ???? cause the girl you are talking to didnt had sex last night and that is why she is first thing in the morning shoping at facebook ...or last night that she went for a drink with her girl friend (girl's night out ) she had seen the ext boyfriend kissing with a new girl and so on and on ...
the specific girl at the specific time will be by far more honnest with you she will lay out her cards far more easier and even better if you manage to esatblish contact or a date with her she will be much easier to approach or "offer" you more comunicative ways to contact her ...
Trouble is that the same girl on a thrisday night is too far away from the "SATURDAY MORNING SYNDROME" and probably shelf cured the ext "boyfriend issue" resulting behaviour "i am hard to get "
happy hunting !!!!
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