2-stage split gain phono preamp with passive-active RIAA

Assuming total capacitance of 100pF or less, resistive loads between 68kOhm and 100kOhm seem to give the best frequency response and the least amount of peaking compared to conventional loading (47kOhm + 150-300pF), at least for my cartridges.

I presume you arrived at this conclusion by actually listening to the carts, with loadings between 68k and 100k?

Or do you think computer modelling is preferable?
 
From the various threads on this forum I have learned that you need a test record if you want to be able to say anything useful about your cartridge loading. If you don't have or don't want to go that route, you can see if you can find your cartridge on this page, albeit they only test with 47 k loading and varying capacitance. This is how I settled on my loading for my build with an Ortofon 2M Red cart.