She was taken far too soon. Love and cherish the time you had, and may she Rest In Peace.
Losing a wife is a very traumatic experience as they are such a big part of your life.
I found losing a wife to someone else is possibly worse as there is a chance she might change her mind and come back.
If she has passed away then thats more final.
After 10 years of looking around for another partner I found in the end I was happier on my own.
I now do what I want, when I want and no one to answer to or keep happy.
I found running my own business keeps me busy and gives little time to be lonely.
I now own all my house and car instead of owning half of everything.
I am too old to start again with a mortgage should a wife decide to move on.
I found losing a wife to someone else is possibly worse as there is a chance she might change her mind and come back.
If she has passed away then thats more final.
After 10 years of looking around for another partner I found in the end I was happier on my own.
I now do what I want, when I want and no one to answer to or keep happy.
I found running my own business keeps me busy and gives little time to be lonely.
I now own all my house and car instead of owning half of everything.
I am too old to start again with a mortgage should a wife decide to move on.
My sincere condolences. I know what you are going through. In 2009 I lost my wife to breast cancer. She was 49. You have some tough times ahead my friend but it does get easier eventually and one day you may find happiness again as I did.
Wise words!
I think that if you feel ok In your current state,that is very valid.
Every person needs are unique, some relate to others, some not, is what you feel good about and not what the society cliche dictates.
I know people who are happy living alone,they have friends but they don't share a common place like a home or apartment.
"I now do what I want, when I want and no one to answer to or keep happy"
That is called freedom !! 😎
