I can relate to that.
You need to make changes to create time to feel bored, or you will burn out and/or develop health issues (mental and physical).
Get some people contact going - join a church, a sports club, a cooking class etc.
OR, join the gay bar scene, he would make lots of friends.
What would you do ego's aside if you could picture yourself in the same situation?
Try create tiny organic food garden and meets peoples at ART expositions and music concerts 🙂 Kind regards
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