Crossover software with low latency and presets

Hello all-

I'm hoping to find a PCXO solution that has the following features-

-Presets changeable via key command (I'd like to use an Elgato Stream deck)

-mutes outputs during preset change (presets will get changed with music playing)

-ASIO support or other low latency audio driver option. I think WASAPI should work (I'm not familiar with it), but ideally I'm trying to get my full latency on an IIR preset down to sub 1ms.

A little background, this is for a recording studio with multiple users. I can get a KVM switch for troubleshooting, but ideally the PCXO will be run with no mouse or keyboard. Being able to use the Stream Deck (or similar) then is important because it creates a simple interface that anyone can understand, and limits access to someone messing with the routing etc.

Worse case I can use a daw with assignable midi mapping, like Studio One. But it seems that a dedicated solution might be less messy.

Thanks!