The drive circuit generally determines what you can use. For a typical drive circuit using emitter-follower pairs, you can use virtually anything if you use the appropriate gate resistors. 47 ohm is typically used with the 3205.
The closest values I have are 60.4ohm ones. could I just replace the 180 ohm with 60 ohm? and leave the 10 ohms in circuit? The drive circuit survived. That would get me to about 40ohms gate to emitter.